Happy Independence Day!

On this 4th of July, 2012, let us please remember the history of our incredible founding, the principles upon which the freedom-loving ideal is based, and the documents that were written as lamps to guide our feet during this great American experiment.

As a history junkie, I have read and studied Thomas Jefferson’s Declaration of Independence, and James Madison’s U.S. Constitution and its enshrined Bill of Rights — the latter which was based on the writings of another famous Virginian, George Mason.

My home state has produced many exceptional political leaders (save Woodrow Wilson, who was merely born in the Old Dominion). Our state motto is Sic semper tyrannis — Thus always to tyrants! — after all.

On March 23, 1775, Patrick Henry delivers his stirring & eloquent speech @ St. John’s Church in Richmond. 

During these pivotal times in our nation, we can wax philosophical about America’s libertarian roots or her federalist system of government. But instead, let us simply revisit the words spoken by yet another revered Virginian, the iconic statesman Patrick Henry.

Described as “the rhetorical backbone of the American Revolution,” Henry gave this famous oration at the Second Virginia Convention. It is fiery, yet cogent — explosive, yet reasoned.

Please take a few minutes this holiday to relax and soak in the words of the entire speech. And I’ll leave you with the passionate words of Henry’s conclusion:

Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty or give me death!

Word(s) of the day

Recently, I began doing this with the boys. The gist is to introduce a brand-new, 3+ syllable word on a daily basis. I define it, write it on the chalkboard, and then we discuss its spelling and phonics.

We also try to use the word properly and in context throughout the day. Here are some examples:

  • “Baby Rorie was born early. She was premature.”
  • “Don’t jab a stick in that hole. You’ll antagonize the snake.”
  • “Charlotte said Wilbur was an intelligent pig.”
  • “No running in the house. Please ambulate instead.”

One of our best pals, Steven, ties the knot w/ his sweetheart, Paige. (Click to see more pics from the late-April wedding & reception.)

The day after the SCOTUS ruling on Obamacare, I befittingly chose two 2-syllable words – power and corrupt — in lieu of doing the norm. I figured if the feds can break the rules on a whim, so can I.

Let your freak flag fly

Since the dudes adore flags, we started looking at specific flags a little more in depth. We’ve already done the Virginia and Texas state flags, as well as the Revolutionary-era Gadsden flag. The lessons include a brief history of the flag and its symbolism, and then coloring printables to look like the original ensign.

When Zeke plays with the small flags we have around the house, he likes to fly them in the breeze of an oscillating fan, while humming either Oh Tannenbaum or the Superman theme song. I suppose the connection between flags, Christmas trees and superheroes is that they’re all majestic in his eyes. How sweet is that?!

Bahama mamas

On the first day of summer, Miss Jessie did a Bahamas-themed lesson. She just returned from a cruise there, so she shared photos, homemade mini-sailboats for races in a large pan of blue-dyed water, and helped the boys do some straw weaving, before they got to stamp their passports. I also cooked up some boiled fish and grits.

Big bro turns 5

We had Houston’s 5th birthday party on 6/23. It was a backyard affair with a few neighborhood friends, and pals from Moms Club, MOPS and CC. Jessie made Houston a solar system cake, which was a huge hit with the kiddos.

Ever loyal to the Godfather, soldiers (Willie & Stephen) protect the Don (Adam).

My homemade guacamole was also such a crowd-pleaser that Gabriel ended up choking on it and chips. Yippee, I’ve now officially given all three of my kids the Heimlich!

Houston got tons of wonderful gifts, of course, including an ant farm and a microscope from Stephen and me. Our hope is that using a real ant habitat will ensure longer lives for the critters and the microscope is for viewing all our accidentally killed pets.

On Houston’s actual birthday of 6/26, we found two Tiger Swallowtail caterpillars, Spaz and Henry. We’re using our old enclosed fish bowl as their home and are trying our best to give them the proper care and feeding. Birthday boy and bros also flew homemade kites, which they handcrafted with Miss Jessie.

We kicked off the celebratory day with a jaunt to the theater to see Kung Fu Panda 2, which prompted our word of the day: “Sometimes Mommy cries during movies. She’s often sentimental.” Houston did great, but Gabe and Zeke were a tad high-maintenance.

It’s getting better all the time

We’ve been working on the new bedtime system for a few weeks now. Houston and Zeke took to it pretty easily, but Gabriel had been fighting it tooth and nail. Thankfully, my persistence and (waning) patience are paying off; G-man is finally getting accustomed to the nighttime routine and has become more pleasurable and less irrational during the process.

Mike & Anah show off Darby the cutie pie.

During one of the more trying nights, I said out loud that I was saint for being able to (relatively) calmly cope with Gabriel’s senseless antics, to which Houston said, “You’re a really good mommy.” That was music to my weary ears, but it was also a cue that I needed to do a better job of keeping my own drama in check, while remaining vigilant with the new plan.

It’s raining, it’s pouring

That’s what the boys were singing in the shower the other evening. Yes, they’ve started taking showers instead of baths, which is so much easier and is a total time-saver to boot. Houston made the switch first, and Gabe and Zeke followed suit soon thereafter … now if they’d just mimic big bro and his going-potty abilities, we’d be set.

Food is the way to a man’s heart

I, however, want it to be a direct route to his will. See, I’m attempting to use M&Ms as a mechanism to break the twins’ willful ways when it comes to potty training (or not using the potty, as the unfortunate case may be).

We still have a few of the old tricks in our arsenal, but we’re hoping that rewarding an independent trek to the bathroom with a chocolate treat may do the trick. So far, nothing newsworthy to report, but we’ve become pretty desperate … obviously.

Rebeeler have fun celebrating Steven & Paige’s big day.

The boys do love food, though, and not just your average kid fare. In fact, Gabriel recently tried a piece of a jalapeno from our garden. Sadly, it was way too hot for even our spiciest boy, but we were impressed with his adventurous palate and quick recovery.

Needless to say, the chocolate cherry tomatoes from our little horticulture plot are a lot more popular with the dudes. They’ve also been eating lots of fresh basil and cilantro, and we look forward to munching on okra and carrots soon.

Swimming & fishing

We spent an entire afternoon last week at Miss Christie’s pool and have another pool date with her and the crew later this week. I hope to do these casual aquatic jaunts consistently throughout the summer with the goal that real swimming will eventually materialize. Nothing groundbreaking yet, but we shall see.

Houston isn’t just trying to swim like a fish, he’s also catching them. Cousins Terri, Ricky and Patrick took him fishing this weekend while he and bros were up in the mountains visiting Granny and Grumps. Houston used the Spider-Man rod Granny bought him for his birthday and caught two fish, I believe one trout and one catfish.

Gabriel and Zeke didn’t get to go on the big-boy outing, but Terri did take them down to the creek for lots of rock-throwing. Honestly, they thought that was as cool as catching a fish.